92 would you rather questions for couples

Would you rather questions for couples

The classic set: two-person dilemmas about how you want to live rather than which superpower you would pick. These are the ones that turn into an actual conversation, because the answers reveal what each of you would trade:

• Would you rather have a partner who always tells you the truth or one who always makes you feel good?
• Would you rather spend every weekend together or have two evenings alone each week?
• Would you rather move somewhere new every three years or stay in one home forever?
• Would you rather have a huge circle of friends as a couple or three couples you truly trust?
• Would you rather be the couple that plans everything or the couple that decides at the door?
• Would you rather split every chore exactly or each fully own half of them?
• Would you rather have the same day off or opposite schedules with more money?
• Would you rather your partner be brilliant at listening or brilliant at fixing?
• Would you rather celebrate loudly with everyone or quietly with just each other?
• Would you rather have one big trip a year or a weekend away every month?
• Would you rather work together every day or never talk about work at home?
• Would you rather have a partner who surprises you often or one who is completely reliable?
• Would you rather be told a hard truth immediately or after you have had a good night's sleep?
• Would you rather share every password or keep every account separate?
• Would you rather have identical taste in music or in food?
• Would you rather live near your family or near theirs?
• Would you rather solve a disagreement tonight or sleep on it and finish it tomorrow?
• Would you rather have a partner who is your calm or your spark?
• Would you rather never argue again or never have to apologize again?
• Would you rather be given more time together or more money to spend on it?

Flirty would you rather questions for couples

Warmer, and better late in an evening than early in one. Each of these asks which kind of attention you actually want, which is more revealing than it sounds:

• Would you rather get a compliment about your face or about your mind?
• Would you rather be told you are missed or told you are wanted?
• Would you rather be kissed goodbye every morning or welcomed home every evening?
• Would you rather slow dance in the kitchen or share a long drive with the good playlist?
• Would you rather receive a handwritten note or a text at exactly the right moment?
• Would you rather be flirted with in public or written to in private?
• Would you rather hold hands the whole way there or sit close the whole way back?
• Would you rather be called by your name or by the nickname only they use?
• Would you rather get flowers unexpectedly or your favorite meal made without asking?
• Would you rather be looked at across a crowded room or reached for in a quiet one?
• Would you rather relive our first kiss or our first proper conversation?
• Would you rather be told what they thought of you on day one or what they think now?
• Would you rather have a whole evening uninterrupted or a whole day of little messages?
• Would you rather be surprised at the door or picked up in the car?
• Would you rather be someone's favorite person or someone's safest place?

Spicy would you rather questions for couples

Spicy here means bolder, not explicit: secrets, dares, and the things you would rather not be asked in front of other people. Good for a night in, and safe to read out anywhere:

• Would you rather read every text I have ever sent about you or have me read yours?
• Would you rather know exactly what I find most attractive about you or keep guessing?
• Would you rather be told a secret about me or tell me one of yours?
• Would you rather have your most embarrassing story told at a party or your most romantic one?
• Would you rather have one perfect night away or four ordinary nights in?
• Would you rather be given a compliment you cannot respond to or a challenge you cannot refuse?
• Would you rather be the one who plans the surprise or the one who is surprised?
• Would you rather have every date be a new experience or every date be our favorite one repeated?
• Would you rather have an entire weekend with no phones or a whole week with no plans?
• Would you rather be told what I thought the first time I saw you or what I thought last night?
• Would you rather win every game we play or lose to me and hear about it forever?
• Would you rather have a secret only we know or a story everyone asks about?
• Would you rather be dared or asked?
• Would you rather have the last word or the last laugh?
• Would you rather be interrupted mid-sentence or left waiting for the answer?

Deep would you rather questions for couples

The two-option format is unexpectedly good at deep questions, because it forces a choice where an open question would let someone answer around it. These fifteen are the ones that stop the room:

• Would you rather know how long we have or never think about it?
• Would you rather be loved for who you are now or for who you are becoming?
• Would you rather be forgiven quickly or fully understood slowly?
• Would you rather your partner need you or choose you every day without needing you?
• Would you rather face a hard year together or an easy year apart?
• Would you rather never disappoint each other or never fear disappointing each other?
• Would you rather be the one who leaves or the one who stays too long?
• Would you rather know every thought I have had about you or keep the mystery?
• Would you rather have a love that is quiet and lasting or vivid and shorter?
• Would you rather be told you have changed or told you have not?
• Would you rather have your worst moment witnessed or your best one missed?
• Would you rather be someone's whole world or someone's steady ground?
• Would you rather grow in the same direction or grow separately and keep choosing each other?
• Would you rather have said it too early or never at all?
• Would you rather be remembered as easy to love or worth the work?

Fun would you rather questions for couples

Low stakes, high volume. Snoring, thermostats, directions, and whose taste in something is objectively worse:

• Would you rather I sang everything I said for a day or spoke only in questions?
• Would you rather share a bathroom mirror forever or share a car with one seat setting?
• Would you rather have my snoring or my alarm habits?
• Would you rather your partner be terrible at directions or terrible at remembering names?
• Would you rather always be five minutes late together or twenty minutes early separately?
• Would you rather have every meal cooked badly with love or ordered perfectly with none?
• Would you rather live with my family for a month or mine live with us for a week?
• Would you rather I narrate every film or ask what happened every ten minutes?
• Would you rather share a phone or share a wardrobe?
• Would you rather be the couple with the loud laugh or the couple with the matching coats?
• Would you rather your partner win every board game or let you win obviously?
• Would you rather do the dishes forever or fold the laundry forever?
• Would you rather have a pet that only likes me or a plant that only survives for you?
• Would you rather argue about the thermostat or about the map?
• Would you rather I told your worst joke at dinner or your best story badly?

Would you rather questions for married couples

Twelve about the long version: the house, the trips, the retirement, and whether you would redo the wedding or the honeymoon given one shot at either:

• Would you rather redo the wedding or redo the honeymoon?
• Would you rather have a bigger house or more time in the one we have?
• Would you rather renew our vows every ten years or write each other a letter every year?
• Would you rather retire early and simply or work longer and comfortably?
• Would you rather take the same trip every year or never repeat one?
• Would you rather have our old routine back or the one we have now?
• Would you rather be known as the couple who never fights or the couple who always makes up fast?
• Would you rather have separate hobbies or one we both love?
• Would you rather your partner remember every anniversary or never forget the small things?
• Would you rather move for a dream job or stay for a settled life?
• Would you rather have a year of nothing going wrong or a year of everything going right after a hard start?
• Would you rather grow old somewhere warm and far or somewhere familiar and close?

How do you play would you rather as a couple?

One person reads both options, the other picks, and then has to say why. No picking both, no picking neither, and no changing your answer after hearing theirs, which is the rule that makes it a game rather than a survey. Two good variants for two people: guess first, where you predict your partner's answer before they give it and score a point for each hit, or defend it, where you each have thirty seconds to argue the option you did not choose. For the general lists rather than the couples edition, see 120 would you rather questions, or spin any set on the would you rather wheel.